As I sit here wondering how honest I should be with this entry, I realize if I can't tell you all, I'll never be able to talk to strangers.. lol.. So here I am.. Writing how scared I am to start dating again.. How I wish I could tell the guy I like that I'd love to go out with him (but I'm scared of ruining the friendship we have), even if we live 2 1/2 hours from each other.. Geez, I hope he doesn't read this.. lol
Confession: I haven't been on a date in almost 5 years..
I used to hate dating.. because guys always expected things from you, it seemed.. I get that if it goes well, I may kiss a guy.. But thinking you are gonna get into my pants on a first date is outrageous to me.. but supposedly I'm in a world that doesn't exist anymore..
I believe that guys should open doors for girls and that they should always pay (and leave a good tip).. I want a guy that actually pays attention to what I say.. And supposedly this is asking a lot..
After saying all this, as of now, I plan to join Match.com later this week.. if my paycheck allows it.. and while I wish this guy would ask ME out, I'm not waiting around.. I may get up the nerve to ask HIM out.. lol.. BUT, until that happens, I will get myself out there.. Hopefully it will be a good experience.. :)
Confession: I haven't been on a date in almost 5 years..
I used to hate dating.. because guys always expected things from you, it seemed.. I get that if it goes well, I may kiss a guy.. But thinking you are gonna get into my pants on a first date is outrageous to me.. but supposedly I'm in a world that doesn't exist anymore..
I believe that guys should open doors for girls and that they should always pay (and leave a good tip).. I want a guy that actually pays attention to what I say.. And supposedly this is asking a lot..
After saying all this, as of now, I plan to join Match.com later this week.. if my paycheck allows it.. and while I wish this guy would ask ME out, I'm not waiting around.. I may get up the nerve to ask HIM out.. lol.. BUT, until that happens, I will get myself out there.. Hopefully it will be a good experience.. :)
The good guys do exist! The ones that don't expect the naughty on the first date, or for the first few months. I found mine in a very unexpected and hopeless place.
ReplyDeleteYou'll find yours too! Love yourself and take care of you. Sounds cliche, but it's true. Your prince will come.
There are good guys out there. I married one. :) don't settle for anything less!
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